Is my female sexual response changing due to perimenopause?

Dear Dr. Milrod: I am nowhere near menopause, but my physician says I might start experiencing symptoms anywhere from 10-15 years before onset. One of these symptoms I understand can be decreased sensitivity, making it harder to climax. I have noticed that it’s a shade harder to climax now than before. I don’t really have a decrease in my drive, but I wonder if I am... Read More

Is it normal that after getting head several times, a penis will be very sore?

Dear Dr. Milrod: I’m really having blast when getting head, especially when my wife swallows. Perhaps I overdid it this week. My urethra is incredibly sore after countless world-class oral workouts in a 48-hour period. My question is: Is it normal that after being suctioned to completion on multiple occasions in a short period, a penis will be incredibly sore? One thing is... Read More

Can you have sex with your sex therapist?

Dear Dr. Milrod: Do you think that sex therapy is a legitimate field as separate from psychotherapy? I agree that a psychotherapist should not engage in sexual activities with their clients in order to maintain the objectivity that is needed to serve them. What happens to objectivity when you are having sex with the sex therapist, since sex therapy is different from psychotherapy? Bob,... Read More

How can I last longer with my wife?

Dear Dr. Milrod: I am a very fit 42-year-old male. I’m also married and have a rather mundane sex life: lights out, similar positions, she won’t swallow, won’t do doggy, etc. I have tried and tried gently, roughly, tenderly, pleaded, everything over the years. I also find I shoot very quickly with her in the dark, and now I wonder if some of her lack of interest... Read More

I need a way to spice up the bedroom activity!

Dear Dr. Milrod: My long time girl friend is an entertainer and has lots of imagination. Still, I am wondering what I could do to spice up our lovemaking? Love My Cinnamon Dear Love My Cinnamon: A good way to start would be to have an open and honest conversation with her about the issue. Does she also feel a need to spice things up, or is she fine with the way things are? I’m... Read More

Can saunas lower your testosterone?

Dear Dr. Milrod: I am 30 years old and know I can’t do certain things like I used to. Meanwhile, I belong to a health club right across the street from where I live.  I go there all the time, sometimes to workout, but mostly to shower, shave and hit my favorite 2 rooms, the hot room (close to a sauna) and the steam room. I have a serious high tolerence for heat.  I can stay... Read More

My girlfriend tastes sour

Dear Dr. Milrod: I’m noticing a sour taste when I’m going down on my girlfriend.  I know she’s clean, just showered. What is it? It’s not always this way. Would flavored lubes be a good idea? Don’t Like It Dear Don’t Like It: Your girlfriend’s delicate vaginal acidity may be off balance. A quick fix would be going to the gynecologist to get a special wash... Read More

Shy testicles?

Dear Dr. Milrod: Is there anything that can be done to prevent my testicles and scrotum from disappearing when I am with a woman? The room is warm, I’ve just taken a hot shower and still I’m almost as smooth as a Ken doll. I love to have my testicles and scrotum licked and sucked, but when they do their disappearing act it’s frustrating. Smooth Operator Dear Smooth Operator: You... Read More

I want my uncle’s wife – my aunt!

Dear Dr. Milrod: I think I like my maternal uncle’s wife – my aunt. She is too sexy to resist and I always think about her and fantasize about having sex with her. What should I do? I am confused whether to tell her that I want her or just carry on masturbating thinking of her. Please help! Esau Dear Esau: You are neither the first nor the last person who has developed an attraction... Read More

Revving up an 18-year marriage?

Dear Dr. Milrod: I am setting up a hotel weekend for my wife that will blow her mind away. Having been married for over 18 years I am looking for ideas to spice things up. What can I do? Harry Hope Dear Harry Hope: You are not stating whether or not this is a surprise weekend; still, asking her what “spiciness” she would wish for, prior to going away, is a great beginning.... Read More