I had my prostate removed and cannot get an erection
Dear Dr. Milrod: I had my prostate removed and cannot get an erection. I climax but do not ejaculate, and am somewhat limited to fingers and tongue. Any ideas as to what kinky and fun things I might be able to enjoy? Of course my female partner needs to enjoy it also? Eric Tion Dear Eric Tion: It seems that you still have sensation in your genitals, even though erection might be difficult to achieve. There are women out there who just love to provide fellatio, erections be damned.... Read More
I am attracted to older women
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have a thing for more mature women. Not 50 years old but like around 25 to 35ish. Now I am 22 and mature for my age. All women I’ve ever been with have all been older than me. To me, it seems like mature women know how to treat a guy well, at least compared to girlfriends I’ve had who have been my age or even a year younger and just not mature yet. I really want to know if society is “cool” with younger guys being with older women?... Read More
Short man, tall girl – could it work?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I am 5’7″ and have normally kept my dates to that height or less. But there are so many really beautiful women that are taller than this, plus with the popularity of really high heels, a 5’5″ lady wearing 6-inchers becomes almost 6 feet tall. Should I even begin to ask out taller women or am I doomed? Napoleon Dear Napoleon: This is one of those issues where evolutionary issues, culture and the eyes of the beholder all create a mix of preferences... Read More
Is my female sexual response changing due to perimenopause?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I am nowhere near menopause, but my physician says I might start experiencing symptoms anywhere from 10-15 years before onset. One of these symptoms I understand can be decreased sensitivity, making it harder to climax. I have noticed that it’s a shade harder to climax now than before. I don’t really have a decrease in my drive, but I wonder if I am as sensitive down there as before. I seem to need more foreplay and sometimes I just don’t know... Read More
Is it normal that after getting head several times, a penis will be very sore?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I’m really having blast when getting head, especially when my wife swallows. Perhaps I overdid it this week. My urethra is incredibly sore after countless world-class oral workouts in a 48-hour period. My question is: Is it normal that after being suctioned to completion on multiple occasions in a short period, a penis will be incredibly sore? One thing is for sure: It’s not an STD! Red Rooster Dear Red Rooster: Yes, it’s normal. Especially if... Read More
Can you have sex with your sex therapist?
Dear Dr. Milrod: Do you think that sex therapy is a legitimate field as separate from psychotherapy? I agree that a psychotherapist should not engage in sexual activities with their clients in order to maintain the objectivity that is needed to serve them. What happens to objectivity when you are having sex with the sex therapist, since sex therapy is different from psychotherapy? Bob, 48 Dear Bob, 48: Sex therapy is most certainly a legitimate field. If it is sex surrogacy... Read More
