My girlfriend’s pelvis is hurting me!
Dear Dr. Milrod: My girlfriend is a very energetic and dominant woman so she likes to get on top and is very physical about it. So much so that I hit her pelvic bones and she doesn’t care. But it hurts me! Lately, I’ve been asking her if I could get on top and do missionary or doggy style so I can control the pace, but I still end up hitting her bones a bit. I have never been with other women where this happened. Is it because she’s too thin? I’m Worried... Read More
I am a man and want to understand menopause
Dear Dr. Milrod: There must be thousands of books on menopause, and yet in some ways it still seems a mystery. Women can get it as early as 45, and it can last anywhere from 2 to 15 years, no? Or are there no rules? Does sexual desire always decline in women during/after menopause? Are exceptions frequent? I am a “mature” man, and although my frequency and quality of performance have declined inevitably with the passage of time, my desire is almost as keen... Read More
I had sex with a transgender woman – what to do now?
Dear Dr. Milrod: What should I do – or how should I feel, after the fact that a lady I really enjoyed spending time with is actually a post-op transsexual? Glen or Glenda Dear Glen or Glenda: The acceptance of someone else’s gender seems to be correlated with the acceptance of one’s own. Many men who are very uncomfortable – almost phobic – toward gender variance have been found to have deeply rooted defense mechanisms in place to cement their own fragile... Read More
Where is her G-spot?
Dear Dr. Milrod: Exactly how to locate this elusive erotic and sensitive zone and what exactly do I need to do to push my girl over the edge. Sorry, if I seem naive, but I seriously need a woman’s perspective here. Randy Andy Dear Randy Andy: To locate the G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it upward toward yourself in a “come here” motion,... Read More
She ejaculated – is it dangerous?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I did cunnilingus with a lovely and likeable woman resulted in her climaxing with heaving, great gasps and a gush of fluid. She was a so-called “squirter!” She said it didn’t happen often, but it had happened before. That was the first time I’ve been part of such a thing, and it was very arousing and it had an interesting taste, too. I’m wondering what exactly is this fluid and should I have any concerns about tasting and swallowing... Read More
