Retarded ejaculation with the Girl Friend Experience?
Dear Dr Milrod: I have been seeing escorts and call girls for a few years now. That works for me and I’m not interested in any moral advice. My problem is that it takes too long for me to orgasm. I have seen several GFE providers so far and they all commented that I almost destroyed their private parts. Not rough but just in there too long. The other day, I saw this lovely... Read More
Can exercises for non-ejaculating orgasms be harmful for enlarged prostates?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have had an enlarged prostate for about 10 years, not due to cancer, and it does not seem to affect my sex life in any way. I’ve been interested in the discussions about non-ejaculating orgasms and pursuing the practice of such, but I’m concerned about possible negative consequences. Thank you for any insights or recommendations you may have. Mr. Free... Read More
Constantly thinking of sex
Dear Dr Milrod: I am an older gentleman who seems to have discovered the fountain of youth in dating younger women. Lately, I find my mind occupied with sexual thoughts virtually all day long…. is this abnormal?…. what is normal? Adonis Dear Adonis: “Virtually all day long.” Does it stop you from concentrating at work? Are you in danger of getting fired?... Read More
Trouble ejaculating with condom
Dear Dr Milrod: I frequently have trouble ejaculating with a condom. I have very little trouble staying erect. I can always ejaculate without a condom during oral or with a hand release. I would love to be able to ejaculate regularly like most people do with a condom on. Once in awhile I can but usually I can’t. I use Crown condoms which are supposed to be the best and they... Read More
Diminished ejaculation
Dear Dr. Milrod: I am a 50-something male, I smoke, but not much. I am in average physical condition. Lately I don’t “pop” like I use to. It’s hard to describe I do ejaculate but not as strongly. Is there something I can do to help this? Older Not Wiser Dear Older Not Wiser: Your physiological response may be age-related and normal. Aging changes in the... Read More
What if sex therapy doesn’t work?
Dear Dr. Milrod: What do people do if they are no longer turned on by their partners, but still turned on by others, yet have no desire to bust up a relationship that can still work in terms of companionship, shared interests, children to raise, etc. I can think of four couples that are facing this situation to greater or lesser extent. I think it’s common — people... Read More
Can a woman become impotent?
Dear Dr Milrod: I am not even sure how to ask this. I have been noticing two rather unusual (for me at least) problems lately. First, I am finding that even when I am really turned on, I just don’t seem to get very wet, or in some cases, I make the Sahara look like an oasis. The problem is happening more frequently, and I am finding myself having to apologize more and more... Read More
Oral sex and psychoanalysis
Dear Dr Milrod: I am very interested in sexual history and specifically sexual practices around the world. Are cunnilingus and fellatio modern practices developed in “advanced” civilizations or has it been practiced throughout history? Why do most women like fellatio and most men cunnilingus? Are there any psychoanalytic underpinnings for it? Member of Academia Dear... Read More
I want to be unfaithful!
Dear Dr Milrod: Why do I want to be unfaithful? I have thought about this long and hard and I believe it is for variety’s sake. In that regard, I see three areas of variation: First, physical. My wife is voluptous, so I would like to see what is is like to be with a petite lady. But my wife has small breasts, so would like to try someone with larger. Second area is... Read More
Retarded or delayed ejaculation
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have only been able to ejaculate into a woman about 6 times in my life. It takes me forever – I guess it’s called delayed ejaculation, or even retarded ejaculation. Meanwhile, I can cum any time I want by hand. I am giving up masturbation for a couple months to see if that will help. Is there anything else I can do? By the way, my significant... Read More
