Time to stay erect

Dear Dr. Milrod: How long does a typical 40-year-old male stay erect? In porno movies, they’re up for 30 minutes straight. I assume that’s editing. Disbeliever Dear Disbeliever: I certainly do not have an answer that will fit everyone and all. A penis belonging to a healthy pre-andropausal male will stay erect when stimulated; it will also depend on the nature of the... Read More

I have performance anxiety when it comes to anal sex

Dear Dr. Milrod: I am a guy who has always fantasized about anal sex. About two years ago, I began indulging in it. I really like it and do it whenever the opportunity arises. But something happened. First was an instance about eight months ago where the girl allowed it, but I lost my erection. Second time, it was with another girl and let’s just say the adventure was not... Read More

Exhibitionistic women and the men who love them

Dear Dr. Milrod: What is the fascination for men regarding women who are exhibitionists? Curious Cat Dear Curious Cat: I am not so sure that men are so unequivocally fascinated with women who are exhibitionists. Depending on the male, he can also experience embarrassment, shame and a fair amount of jealousy in the face of a female exhibitionist. Of course, if the man is not connected... Read More

Using a female condom

Dear Dr. Milrod: I’ve now been with a couple of women who have selected to use female condoms instead of a regular male condom. It can take a while to insert properly but I’ve also found that it can be difficult to switch sexual positions if this entails withdrawing. Sometimes it seems that the female condom begins to dislodge, for example in moving from the woman on... Read More

Effect of antibiotics

Dear Dr. Milrod: I recently had a severe chest cold that lasted about 18 days. During that time I took Amoxicillin 10 days (350 ml) daily. This was also in combination with over-the-counter Sudafed. I purposely waited an extra 5 days after the script ran out before arranging a date. While the lady was great I had a horrible time getting “good wood” that would last beyond... Read More

General erection question

Dear Dr. Milrod: I don’t generally have a problem with getting an erection. I can do it myself, and also when it comes to oral, there is no problem. However, when it comes to the act of coitus, there tends to be a little interruptus, if you know what I mean. Not sure whether wearing a condom has anything to do with this or not, and I completely understand the necessity for... Read More

Should I have sex with my sister-in-law?

Dear Dr. Milrod: My married sister-in-law is hot and has shown attraction and flirtition to me in the past.  I’ve never done anything with her, as I was concerned that she would “talk” with my wife. I have explored a little to see if anything would get relayed back to my wife.  Each time I explore, I go a little further, and so far nothing has come back to my... Read More

How can I find a woman who can handle a bodybuilder like me?

Dear Dr. Milrod: During one of my last steroid bodybuilding cycles, it adversely affected my libido. I discovered Caverject. This medication when injected into the penis keeps it incredibly rigid for 2 to 3 hours. As a pro-bodybuilder I’m in freaky shape with unusual physical stamina. Most women don’t want a locomotive pounding for several non-stop hours. I cannot seem... Read More

Diabetic and can’t orgasm

Dear Dr Milrod: I am a 32 year old guy with an ever-evolving problem. When I first started having sex, my girlfriend would barely touch me and I’d be done.  Now, I’m finding it almost impossible to climax. We have even had lots of bareback oral sex and haven’t been able to complete. I always figured the problem might have been too many XXX videos – along... Read More

My husband masturbates to porn!

Dear Dr. Milrod: My husband masturbates regularly to porn sites. I have no issue whatsoever with him masturbating I merely question the frequency of it. I take it personally even though I know he desires me and is turned on by me, in addition to us having a positive sex life together. I do believe that his frequency interferes with our sexual frequency, as his desire seemingly has... Read More