Can sexual desire and performance be a seasonal thing?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have noticed a parallel between last year and this year as far as my sex life is concerned. About this time last year, I entered a stretch from October through December in which I went into a real slump: lousy erections, less libido, sub-par performance, and difficulty finishing. From January though August things were pretty much back to normal. It looks like... Read More
Unable to get erection with new girlfriend!
Dear Dr. Milrod: The last few times I”ve met with my new girlfriend, I’ve been unable to get a decent erection. I take a daily Cialis pill; I also take two separate blood pressure medications and one for cholesteral. Not sure if the BP meds are the problem or what. The thing is I can get a great erection when watching soft porn or with my former lady friend of almost... Read More
How long after a bowel moment should I wait to rim?
Dear Dr. Milrod: In the past, I have only received rimjobs, so this hasn’t been an issue for me. But recently I have been thinking about giving anilingus. However, I am wondering how soon after a person defecates are they considered rim-ready? Or is a part of the pleasure of performing a rimjob on another person knowing you are “cleaning” him/her? That does turn me... Read More
Erection dynamics
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have found that I have a hard time sustaining an erection while lying down, for example, when my partner is on top or similar. However, in missionary, doggie or other positions when I am standing or on top, I am good to go. I don’t think this is psychological. I have no medical credentials, but could this have something to do with blood flow to my penis,... Read More
Why do some women date prison inmates?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have a hard working, really nice girlfriend who could probably date any man she so chose, but she is dating a prison inmate! She now wants to marry him – what is going on here? Genevieve in Vegas Dear Genevieve in Vegas: It is puzzling, isn’t it? When there are so many nice, kind, hardworking men out there who haven’t had an ounce of contact with... Read More
Why are some men attracted to women’s feet?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I find myself being more and more attracted to women’s feet. I stare at them, I check out feet when I’m on the beach, but even more, I love women’s feet in shoes. Is there something wrong with me? Stanley, 33 Dear Stanley, 33: Any body part seems to be capable of becoming eroticized in the human sexual matrix. One thing I have come to observe anecdotally is... Read More
Sex during menstruation
Dear Dr Milrod: I wonder what activities are safe or off limits during “the monthly curse”. Is sex with a condom any riskier if a woman is menstruating? Is there a higher level of bacteria or other pathogens in menstrual blood than in regular vaginal lubrication or secretions? While cunnilingus might not be appealing at that moment, is it riskier at different times of the... Read More
Food play
Dear Dr. Milrod: Bringing some food into the bedroom intrigues me. I’d like to mess around with some chocolate, whip cream, fruit, or anything else that may be fun. I have a few concerns though. First, my hairy body is not going to be a pretty sight. Next, I hear there a health concerns on the female side. Apperently putting food inside a vagina doesn’t work too well. Do... Read More
I have erections at work!
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have been flirting with an attractive co-worker. We have been hugging in an erotic way. Luckily were both single, so this doesn’t bother me at all – I actually welcome it. I sometime get embarrassed when I see the bulge in my pants. My little head wants to give into her and have sex, but my big head says “no, because you would only want her for... Read More
