Sex as a weapon
Dear Dr. Milrod: I think my wife is using sex as a weapon. We were going to hang some new wallpaper and she told me “no sex at all until the wallpaper is hung!” This is only one example among many. She uses sex as a reward sometimes, and the withdrawal of sex as punishment. What should I do? Frustration’s the Name Dear Frustration’s the Name: Every couple has its own rules and roles, its communication and its meta-communication; power and powerlessness can shift from issue... Read More
