Time to stay erect

Dear Dr. Milrod: How long does a typical 40-year-old male stay erect? In porno movies, they’re up for 30 minutes straight. I assume that’s editing. Disbeliever Dear Disbeliever: I certainly do not have an answer that will fit everyone and all. A penis belonging to a healthy pre-andropausal male will stay erect when stimulated; it will also depend on the nature of the stimulus and who does what to whom. Of course, the same healthy male will eventually ejaculate if the... Read More

I have performance anxiety when it comes to anal sex

Dear Dr. Milrod: I am a guy who has always fantasized about anal sex. About two years ago, I began indulging in it. I really like it and do it whenever the opportunity arises. But something happened. First was an instance about eight months ago where the girl allowed it, but I lost my erection. Second time, it was with another girl and let’s just say the adventure was not as completey hygienic as I was expecting. I noticed that after the second occurrence, I can be hard... Read More