Retarded or delayed ejaculation

Dear Dr. Milrod: I have only been able to ejaculate into a woman about 6 times in my life.  It takes me forever – I guess it’s called delayed ejaculation, or even retarded ejaculation. Meanwhile, I can cum any time I want by hand.  I am giving up masturbation for a couple months to see if that will help.  Is there anything else I can do?  By the way, my significant other is a prude whose idea of wild sex is kissing and then missionary position intercourse.  I... Read More

Tickling fetish

Dear Dr. Milrod: My husband confessed to me that he gets off on tickling me! What to make of it and why is this a fetish? How could we make this a part of our sexual repertoire? I don’t care, as much as I just find it funny! Laughing Lolly Dear Laughing Lolly: A tickling fetish is like any other fetish – a specific behavior that becomes associated with a sexual feeling in the tickler/ticklee. As to why fetishes are fetishes, you’ll have to read John Money’s... Read More