My husband masturbates to porn!
Dear Dr. Milrod: My husband masturbates regularly to porn sites. I have no issue whatsoever with him masturbating I merely question the frequency of it. I take it personally even though I know he desires me and is turned on by me, in addition to us having a positive sex life together. I do believe that his frequency interferes with our sexual frequency, as his desire seemingly has been satisfied from the pornography viewing. I have tried to talk to him about how it makes me feel... Read More
Retarded ejaculation with the Girl Friend Experience?
Dear Dr Milrod: I have been seeing escorts and call girls for a few years now. That works for me and I’m not interested in any moral advice. My problem is that it takes too long for me to orgasm. I have seen several GFE providers so far and they all commented that I almost destroyed their private parts. Not rough but just in there too long. The other day, I saw this lovely lady and had a great time. Well, maybe she did not. She kept saying “can you cum yet?”.... Read More
Can exercises for non-ejaculating orgasms be harmful for enlarged prostates?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have had an enlarged prostate for about 10 years, not due to cancer, and it does not seem to affect my sex life in any way. I’ve been interested in the discussions about non-ejaculating orgasms and pursuing the practice of such, but I’m concerned about possible negative consequences. Thank you for any insights or recommendations you may have. Mr. Free Love Dear Mr. Free Love: In my opinion, anyone with a prostate – enlarged or not – should... Read More
Constantly thinking of sex
Dear Dr Milrod: I am an older gentleman who seems to have discovered the fountain of youth in dating younger women. Lately, I find my mind occupied with sexual thoughts virtually all day long…. is this abnormal?…. what is normal? Adonis Dear Adonis: “Virtually all day long.” Does it stop you from concentrating at work? Are you in danger of getting fired? Have your peers/superiors complained about your work performance? Are you having problems concentrating... Read More
Trouble ejaculating with condom
Dear Dr Milrod: I frequently have trouble ejaculating with a condom. I have very little trouble staying erect. I can always ejaculate without a condom during oral or with a hand release. I would love to be able to ejaculate regularly like most people do with a condom on. Once in awhile I can but usually I can’t. I use Crown condoms which are supposed to be the best and they have helped a little bit. Any suggestions? Not Happening Dear Not Happening: I don’t know... Read More
Diminished ejaculation
Dear Dr. Milrod: I am a 50-something male, I smoke, but not much. I am in average physical condition. Lately I don’t “pop” like I use to. It’s hard to describe I do ejaculate but not as strongly. Is there something I can do to help this? Older Not Wiser Dear Older Not Wiser: Your physiological response may be age-related and normal. Aging changes in the male reproductive system may include changes in testicular tissue, sperm production, and erectile function.... Read More
What if sex therapy doesn’t work?
Dear Dr. Milrod: What do people do if they are no longer turned on by their partners, but still turned on by others, yet have no desire to bust up a relationship that can still work in terms of companionship, shared interests, children to raise, etc. I can think of four couples that are facing this situation to greater or lesser extent. I think it’s common — people still love and cherish their partners but no longer have a sexual interest in them after maybe 15 or... Read More
Can a woman become impotent?
Dear Dr Milrod: I am not even sure how to ask this. I have been noticing two rather unusual (for me at least) problems lately. First, I am finding that even when I am really turned on, I just don’t seem to get very wet, or in some cases, I make the Sahara look like an oasis. The problem is happening more frequently, and I am finding myself having to apologize more and more often to my man that it’s not him – it’s me, when I have to grab some lube. I am... Read More
Oral sex and psychoanalysis
Dear Dr Milrod: I am very interested in sexual history and specifically sexual practices around the world. Are cunnilingus and fellatio modern practices developed in “advanced” civilizations or has it been practiced throughout history? Why do most women like fellatio and most men cunnilingus? Are there any psychoanalytic underpinnings for it? Member of Academia Dear Member of Academia: Cunnilingus and fellatio have been practiced throughout history, in various societies.... Read More
I want to be unfaithful!
Dear Dr Milrod: Why do I want to be unfaithful? I have thought about this long and hard and I believe it is for variety’s sake. In that regard, I see three areas of variation: First, physical. My wife is voluptous, so I would like to see what is is like to be with a petite lady. But my wife has small breasts, so would like to try someone with larger. Second area is behavioral. My wife has certain behaviors that are off the table , so I seek an experience where those... Read More
