How to prolong or have multiple orgasms
Dear Dr. Milrod: Can you reveal any tricks to hold off an orgasm or have multiple orgasms without softening, that tantric practitioners seem to refer to? I find that when I am having sex, I really enjoy getting to the edge and trying to stay there without ejaculating. Unfortunately, most times, this does not last long and I blow too quickly! I have tried jerking off just prior to intercourse but then it takes a little while to get hard. I sort of stay semi-hard, which is okay... Read More
Prostate orgasm
Dear Dr. Milrod: What is the best way to have a prostate orgasm? Using a vibrating toy, repeated thrusting with a dildo, certain shapes of toys? I have always wanted to experience one of these, but have never been able to quite do it. Borden Dear Borden: It depends on what you find pleasurable. Some precautions: if you choose a dildo, make sure it’s a smaller type suited for anal stim. And use plenty of lube; you don’t want to have microfissures in your anus. The... Read More
I’m worried I’m not normal – I like rough sex!
Dear Dr. Milrod: For the past five years I have been with a woman who is a self proclaimed slut. Yes, I say self-proclaimed because she will readily admit to being one and uses that term quite frequently to describe herself and wears it as a badge of honor. I had no problem with that, it was part of the attraction from the beginning. As you might guess, being that “sluts” are non-monogamous, we have had an open relationship nearly from day one and have been actively involved... Read More
I have fallen in love with someone from Nepal!
Dear Dr Milrod: A few years ago I started looking for possible life companions on the Web, not planning on having all the physical problems I have since encountered. The bottom line is that I have met a much younger woman in Nepal who has fallen deeply in love with me and with whom I am also deeply in love. She is well aware of my age, my health problems, and my (currently) limited income. I have had strong negative feedback from members of my family (who, by the way, have never... Read More
How much can I compliment her body?
Dear Dr. Milrod: My new girlfriend of one month is gorgeous from head to toe, with many highlights in between. My question is whether women like hearing talk about their body parts? Or would my comments about, say, her labia seem kind of perverse? Leo Dear Leo: Let’s get one thing straight: all women like to be complimented – to a point. Sure you can say that someone’s labia are beautiful. Some women may have a complex about their genitalia, labia included, (sad... Read More
Am I the one who needs therapy for being passive aggressive?
Dear Dr Milrod: This is really weird. In many of the relationships that I have been involved with, it appears that the women always turn things around and the blame is placed at my feet. My ex-wife did this during our divorce, in which she made charges that I was abusive, controlling, and never emotionally in the marriage. When the dust settled, she had her parental rights terminated and the custody evaluator termed her unstable, abusive, and controlling. Then it was the... Read More
Helping a single mom in exchange for sex
Dear Dr Milrod: I am an older “gentleman”, married, in a no-sex or intimacy relationship with my disabled wife (going on 6 years). I am good friends with a single mother. I help with bills and other stuff to make her life a bit easier. I love her kids and they love me. We have talked of sex but she is adamantly against it, saying, among other things, that she respects my wife too much to have sex with me. (She does not know my wife.) It’s obvious to the gentleman... Read More
Are men from Mars and women from Venus?
Dear Dr Milrod: We all recognize the stereotype of the male species, willing and actively seeking out as many meaningless and varied sexual experiences as are available to him. Usually this is done on a sort of autopilot, with little regard to the consequences. But what about the ladies? All of my previous mistresses and “Loves of my Life” that I was having affairs with, would “Bang my Brains” out, and then get on the phone to their husband/boyfriend... Read More
Sexual arousal question
Dear Dr. Milrod: I’m a 24-year-old straight male with a very healthy sexual appetite. I am very sexually aroused by anything that’s “wrong” or that could get me in trouble. I know this sounds strange, but I get a feeling of sexual arousal that is much more intense than traditional sexual stimulation when I’m in a situation that is taboo or in which I could be punished. Last week, I was trying to get back to work after lunch, and I was running... Read More
