Why do I love thrusting and mish?

Dear Dr Milrod: What is it about “thrusting” during sex that I find more satisfying than the orgasm?   And I don’t mean some “animalistic behavior.”   I really only like sex in missionary and embracing my woman while making long slow thrusts.  I really try hard to fight off the orgasm until I know the woman has had enough.  Is there some caveman DNA at work here or what?  Other positions are less enjoyable for me, especially where I do not control... Read More

Am I a sex addict?

Dear Dr Milrod: I have a sexual addiction I believe. I think constantly about sex. Do support groups actually work or not? I think my sexual addiction has gotten worse because of the fact I quit smoking a few months ago, and since then, my sexual appetite has increased. Is this normal? Horny Toad Dear Horny Toad: Please let’s not confuse thoughts of sex and sexual appetite with sex addiction. If you have quit smoking it is only natural that your sexual appetite has increased,... Read More

I’m in my mid-20s – why can’t I ejaculate multiple times?

Dear Dr Milrod: I am in my mid-20’s, healthy, and as far as I can tell, everything works normally. I always have a dilemma in my dates. I have the problem of not being able to last very long because everything is so good, but I often finish too early, almost like premature ejaculation, before I can get around to all the activities I want to engage in. To most young guys this isn’t a problem, but when I cum, my sexual ability is pretty much out of commission for a couple... Read More

How to keep the condom from slipping

Dear Dr. Milrod: Do you have any tips for how to keep the condom from slipping during sex? Tom and Dick Dear Tom and Dick: I have no idea what transpires during your encounters, but one way of dealing with it is to follow these instructions carefully: Do not store condoms in a glove box or in your wallet for a prolonged amount of time. Also, don’t use condoms past the expiration date and do not open condoms with your teeth. If you’re using a latex condom, don’t... Read More

Ravishment or rape?

Dear Dr Milrod: I have a rape fetish.  Now hear me out.  i am not going to go out and find a woman and just rape her.  I have had a couple of relationships where the women have had rape fantasies and we acted on them with amazing results!  One even cried during the act!  Since then after about 3-4 mos. of being intimate with someone I have an uncontrollable urge to do this with them.  Is this wrong?  Or are people just afraid to act out this type of fantasy with each other?... Read More

When sex with your wife grosses you out

Dear Dr. Milrod: When having sex with your wife deteriorates to the point where it grosses you out and you can’t even get an erection- is there any hope at all of reconciliation? I have  have so little interest left in the marriage that counseling would only be a disservice. If I were seeking counseling now it would be mis-motived and only to use the counselor to help push the marriage in to divorce.  Why still in it everyone asks-  though not a valid reason on some people’s... Read More

Is there such a thing as “asexual?”

Dear Dr Milrod: Lately, I’ve been hearing about people who arent attracted to either sex Is it real, or were they abused as kids, and just dont want to relive it? I think there’s a comedian out there who says she is asexual. Do you think she is really lesbian and doesnt want to admit to herself, or does she think sex is dirty, and alot of work, and doesnt want to waste her time? Not Sure Dear Not Sure: I believe there is a confluence of factors. In the current version... Read More

Low serotonin but high sex drive?

Dear Dr Milrod: I have been diagnosed with a very low serotonin level which explains my propensity for migraines. Interestingly enough, Wake Forest Medical School conducted a study on low serotonin levels in men resulting in a significantly higher sex drive to the point of potential sexual addiction. I guess serotonin helps men balance the effects of testosterone in the body. Do you have any  thoughts on this subject? Curious Wabbit Dear Curious Wabbit: Yes, I’ve seen data... Read More

My Significant Other is too horny for me!

Dear Dr Milrod: I’ve been sort of cheating sexually with a variety of women for about 4 months and am having a blast. Weird thing though, my Significant Other seems to be reaching her sexual peak and turning into a total minx! *I’m loving it, but… She constantly complains that I finish too fast (and I last about 20 minutes hard pounding) or when I don’t finish quickly which I’ve been training myself to do all my life, she accuses me of not being attracted... Read More

My boss gets involved in my love life

Dear Dr. Milrod: I’m 37, running a division for a company and report to a famous CEO who’s actually in the press alot lately. I recently broke up with someone who was putting the pressure on to get married, but, great and beautiful as she is I just don’t want to get married right now, call it what you want: commitment issues, peter pan syndrome…whatever. I know myself and marriage doesn’t concern me nearly as much as divorce would being I’m... Read More