No longer able to orgasm twice?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I’m in my upper 40s and I have never had any trouble getting an erection. I have, however, found that it’s harder to ejaculate. Back in college, three times a night was no problem, but now I’m a one hit wonder. Also, unless it’s been a few days since my last orgasm, I sometimes struggle having an orgasm in a condom with a temporary partner. I do find that foreplay helps a lot. For example, if I am with someone and we massage each... Read More
The best way to get a male orgasm
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have a great deal of endurance when I make love. But part of the joy of pleasing a woman is to also have an orgasm with her about the same time. The woman I am says she is multiorgasmic, and I am not. I feel that if I cannot reciprocate, then she will feel as if she is not special. How can I come when she says, “Come for me?” Donovan Dear Donovan: One thing is certain, and that is that it is impossible for men and women to orgasm on command. That’s... Read More
Can sexual desire and performance be a seasonal thing?
Dear Dr. Milrod: I have noticed a parallel between last year and this year as far as my sex life is concerned. About this time last year, I entered a stretch from October through December in which I went into a real slump: lousy erections, less libido, sub-par performance, and difficulty finishing. From January though August things were pretty much back to normal. It looks like the same thing is happening now. Although I suppose there is no definitive answer, I nevertheless... Read More
Unable to get erection with new girlfriend!
Dear Dr. Milrod: The last few times I”ve met with my new girlfriend, I’ve been unable to get a decent erection. I take a daily Cialis pill; I also take two separate blood pressure medications and one for cholesteral. Not sure if the BP meds are the problem or what. The thing is I can get a great erection when watching soft porn or with my former lady friend of almost 30 years. Is this all in my head ? My new, gorgeous, beautiful girlfriend (she is only 30) has... Read More
How long after a bowel moment should I wait to rim?
Dear Dr. Milrod: In the past, I have only received rimjobs, so this hasn’t been an issue for me. But recently I have been thinking about giving anilingus. However, I am wondering how soon after a person defecates are they considered rim-ready? Or is a part of the pleasure of performing a rimjob on another person knowing you are “cleaning” him/her? That does turn me on a little, but it seems wrong too. Poopie Night Dear Poopie Night: That’s an interesting question,... Read More
