Sex during menstruation

Dear Dr Milrod: I wonder what activities are safe or off limits during “the monthly curse”.  Is sex with a condom any riskier if a woman is menstruating?  Is there a higher level of bacteria or other pathogens in menstrual blood than in regular vaginal lubrication or secretions? While cunnilingus might not be appealing at that moment, is it riskier at different times of the month? Brett Dear Brett: There are so many myths around menstruation worldwide that to write about... Read More

Food play

Dear Dr. Milrod: Bringing some food into the bedroom intrigues me. I’d like to mess around with some chocolate, whip cream, fruit, or anything else that may be fun. I have a few concerns though. First, my hairy body is not going to be a pretty sight. Next, I hear there a health concerns on the female side. Apperently putting food inside a vagina doesn’t work too well. Do you have any good suggestions? Chef at Heart Dear Chef at Heart: Who says food and genitals don’t... Read More

I have erections at work!

Dear Dr. Milrod: I have been flirting with an attractive co-worker. We have been hugging in an erotic way. Luckily were both single, so this doesn’t bother me at all – I actually welcome it. I sometime get embarrassed when I see the bulge in my pants. My little head wants to give into her and have sex, but my big head says “no, because you would only want her for sex.” Do you have any advice on controlling my spontaneous erections without having sex with her.... Read More